From anime experiences:
1. Be more positive/optimistic in your thinking (Setokai no Ichizon)
2. You don't need friends to confirm their relationship with you as a friend (Haganai/Boku wa Tomodachi)
3. Some friends are only friends with you in that particular period/stage of your life, its normal for them to drift away if you don't continue to make the effort to maintain your relationship with them. (mix of both real life, reddit, and anime)
4. Things you should never do when socialising (Watamote: Tomoko ;~; )
5. Be true to those you really love and show concern about, don't hide your true feelings and words, no matter how awkward it may be, don't let it be a regret, because it doesn't work as well as Tsunderes may behave in anime. (Nisekoi)
6. I guess one moral is that each person have their attractive traits and horrible weaknesses.
7. Its also important to clarify any misunderstandings and doubts with the other person, as soon as possible.
8. Take note if someone is trying to tell you something different in their fashion XD (Tsunderes and Nisekoi)
9. Be good at cooking ?
(Nisekoi 2nd season Episode 9)
10. "Force" someone to do something they have secretly been desiring (Kono-Naka-ni-Hitori-Imouto-ga-Iru Episode 8, 11:31)
From real life experiences:
Always watch this if you feel down: http://listenonrepeat.com/watch/?v=D_Vg4uyYwEk#HD_-_Rocky_Balboa_(2006)_-_inspirational_speech
0. Become a spiritual person that helps others, if all else in my life fails. (ask temples, and if it is real)
1. Its always better to be safe than sorry.
2. Being prepared is better than last minute work due to procrastination.
3. If its there, use/abuse it. Don't let it go to waste.
4.
Don't care so much about what others think, just
know where you went wrong, and move on, don't cry over spilt milk.
5. NO ONE IS PERFECT, seek a
balance in what you do.
6.Don't be over-demanding/attention seeking, but be very firm in requests.
7. Compliment people, but don't overdo it. (Balance)
8. Always be willing to try out new things. (See Nisekoi Season 2 Episode 9)
9. DON'T BE AFRAID TO BE DIFFERENT (think back on mouz vs NiP B03 match for MLG Columbus 2016)
10. People won't reply you always on WhatsApp, because they are busy, unsure how to reply, insensitive, etc. (see who is more worthy of your time and respect, and act accordingly)
11. Be assertive and firm, don't be afraid to take risks (eg. offer reward of Pizza, remember Poly Year 3 Intl Marketing Project Conflict, 30 May 2016)
12. 30 May 2016, old problem, spending too much time alone in front of the PC has led to me being weak in talking with people.
Definitely to be continued.
